Dear Readers,

Have you ever feels like you have to adjust to what society believe you should be? Changing yourself just to fit in? Listening to others demand just so you would be accepted? Hated by people because you are different? Stop doing something you love just because you were afraid of being judged by other people? Well, in this article I will tell you EXACTLY why you should NOT be afraid of just being you, and here goes..

 

1. You were born alone, and will be buried alone (and even if you were born together with your twins there is minutes parting you)

As stated above you are born into this world alone and you will also be buried alone, which mean it is only rational for you to live just for you! Honestly, I personally have try to live by the accepted standard made by the society I live in and it was the worst time in my life, its very tiring because I have to constantly keep up with the facade I made, my other self that is probably accepted by the people around me, even in a crowd of people I feel alone and unhappy.. But remembering the tough times being hated by other people is what keep me strong then suddenly it hit me! I was born into this world alone, and will be buried in a grave alone, it's time for me to live as I am! Because to be honest those crowd of people I try so hard to please is unworthy of my true self!

2. You Will Filled With Reassurance That Your Friends Is Yours Truthfully

Understand that friends come and go, but with a precious few you should hold on. The older you get, the more you need the people who knew you when you were young. - Mary Schmich 

 Over the years no matter what you have done, no matter how many friends you make there is always those who sticks around the longest, be mad at you if you do something stupid, help you to med your broken heart, support you in whatever decision you choose and accepts you for who you are.. For those people you should be happy with being YOU! 

3. You Will Acquire a More Fruitful Future

Because you accepts who you are, you will soon find yourself in a new wolrd called "self realization" because you are no longer lived by others expectation you started to expect more from yourself, by doing so you will question yourself on what is actually your passion in life? You will want to pursue it! And by doing so you will find yourself in a brink of a loads of new opportunities which is consist of meeting new people with the same interest and people who can happily accept your quirkyness and more suitable to boost your self esteem because of the feeling of accepted and be happy because the achievement you gain is from your own sweat and due to your own passion!

4. People Will Easily Differentiate You From The Rest

Barbie

Barbie via http://websta.me

Everybody wanna try to box me in
Suffocating every time it locks me in
Painting their own pictures then they crop me in
But I will remain where the top begins
Cause I am not a word, I am not a line
I am not a girl that can ever be defined
I am not fly, I am levitation

- Fly by Nicki Minaj ft Rihanna

Everybody is born unique even if you were born as twins, there is traits within you that others dont have and that traits can be your very own mark! Because you love you for you, you know your own good and bad capability, that makes you different and stand out from the crowd, you will have control over yourself and know which button to push in order for yourself to strive.. By being true to yourself unknowingly you start to give off this vibe that differentiate yourself from the crowd because while others is following rules made by society, you break them and that my friend is what will make you yoUnique!

5. You Will Become a Nicer Person

Being happy with yourself takes a lot of work you have to first accept your own flaws and deal with past mistakes, this process will humble you.. In the end you will realize that being happy with yourself, love yourself, accept yourself first is the key ingredient for a longetivity happiness a human can obtain.. If you love yourself enough you will not let others break you apart, if you respect yourself enough you not have others disrespect you, and if you accept who you are, you will be pleasantly surprised with how many other people that will love you as you are too!